docs: update documentation to reflect monolith recipe architecture
- Clarify this is a monolith Site recipe, not a traditional recipe
- Add detailed development workflow using DDEV and drush site:export
- Expand module list to reflect complete dependency set (120+ modules)
- Document proper installation process with DDEV
- Explain monolith vs traditional recipe architecture differences
- Update CLAUDE.md with drupal_cms_helper export workflow
- Update README.md with expanded module list and development section
- Add healthcare-specific features and target audience description
Closes #3578112