Automation: AI-Initiative quick-action commands (assign/unassign/label add/remove)
## Summary
Add custom AI-Initiative quick-action commands: `/ai:assign-me`, `/ai:unassign-me`, `/ai:label-add`, `/ai:label-remove`.
## Work Track
Cross-track (AI Core / coordination)
## Context / Background
GitLab's built-in `/assign me` only handles the assignee — the AI Initiative's flow also needs to flip the work item status ("In progress", "Active") at the same time. Implement Drupal-side comment parsers that react to AI-prefixed commands posted on issues and apply the bundled changes.
Parent / related: #3586474.
This issue is blocked by the three exploration issues (#3586475, #3586476, #3586477) — the platform choice and the available `gitlab_api` primitives must land first.
## Tasks
* [ ] `/ai:assign-me` → assign commenter + set work item status to "In progress".
* [ ] `/ai:unassign-me` → if status is "Approved" / `state::accepted`, set status to "Active" / equivalent active state, and unassign commenter.
* [ ] `/ai:label-add <label>` → add the named label (validate it exists on the project first).
* [ ] `/ai:label-remove <label>` → remove the named label (no-op if absent).
* [ ] Reject malformed commands with a single explanatory comment, do not spam.
* [ ] Document the commands in the project README / contributor docs.
## Acceptance Criteria
* [ ] All four commands work end-to-end on a test issue.
* [ ] Status / assignee changes are applied via the GitLab work items GraphQL API (not just labels).
* [ ] Unknown labels surface a friendly error instead of silently failing.
## Related issues
## AI Usage
- [x] AI Assisted Issue — This issue was generated with AI assistance, but was reviewed and refined by the creator.
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